Deb reconnected with a part of herself that she feels has been dormant for a while, and she came back with that part switched back on and not wanting to let it go dim again.
What do we do though when our ideas of fun are very different? For me, spending time with family and close friends, working, creating, reading and watching movies is as good as it gets. For Deb, her idea of fun right now is Latin dancing and socializing.
One of our goals is to make a conscious effort to have more fun together, but we also both want to give each other the space to have fun on our own. We are each making a list of things we'd like to do individually, as a couple, and as a family. In the meantime, I have purchased a home karaoke machine and we are squeezing the juice out of it after our little one goes to bed.