My intention is to only include resources that I have personally used and benefitted from, and/or that I have used successfully with my clients. Please feel free to reach out with any questions.
Relationship resources
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Hold Me Tight: Dr. Sue Johnson created Emotion Focused Therapy. She is a legend in the couple therapy world and a big inspiration for me. This book is hugely helpful, readable and accessible. There is an audio version too, which is great if you and your partner want to listen together.
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Mating in Captivity: Dr. Esther Perel has done tremendous work regarding the challenges inherent in keeping sex lives alive in monogamous relationships.
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Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: This book by Dr. Joe Dispenza provides a clear and practical way to identify, understand and address habitual ways of being that keep us stuck repeating the past. The last part of the book guides you to apply what you learn with guided meditations. Dr. Dispenza offers workshops and trainings all around the world. I'm a big fan.
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Reinventing Your Life: This is the book I have almost all of my patients get at the beginning of therapy. The vast majority are blown away by how helpful it is, how understood it makes them feel and how it provides a clear language and bridge to so much that had been incomprehensible. Dr. Jeffrey Young is the creator of Schema Therapy, and the co-author of this brilliant book with Dr. Janet Klosko.
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Parenting resources
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Sitting Still Like a Frog: The paperback version of this book comes with a CD. This is a great way to get your feet wet with mindfulness and meditation and make it something the whole family can do. My son uses the sleep meditation track every night.
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Great Expectations: Becoming a Dad: The First Three Years: This is a wonderful book on fatherhood by my good friend and colleague, John Carr, L-CSW, designed to promote a father's presence from the very beginning. There's an important chapter on keeping a marriage strong.
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Parenting From the Inside Out: This is a classic book on mindful parenting by Dr. Daniel Siegel grounded in attachment theory and neuroscience.
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The Whole Brain Child: This is another brilliant mindful parenting book loaded with tools and strategies on how to raise a well-rounded child.
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Here are some great resources to help parents understand their kids' sleep needs:
Healthy Sleep for New and Expecting Parents
Children's Sleep Guide
How To Manage Screen Time and Bedtime